Basically I think it comes down to people who feel sorry for those who choose to attack others (or those who have a habit of acting in an aggressive and impulsive manner*), and those who don't. Some feel that there is some "appropriate level of response" to being attacked-- a "proportional response", as they call it. I give the defender a much wider latitude.
Sure, there is the potential that a bully could goad someone into approaching him in an aggressive way, and then shoot the person; claiming self defense. Or, maybe they could just shoot someone dead and lie about the whole incident. Nothing is to prevent the targeted victim of a scam like this from using deadly force in his own defense. I'd rather 1,000 thugs "get away with" this than see even ONE defender be punished for defending themselves from an aggressor.
("But what about cops shooting those they stop? Aren't they defending themselves legitimately? Shouldn't they also get to stand their ground?" They are defending themselves as legitimately as any other aggressor who shoots a person who resists and fights back. Because in almost every single instance, the cop is the one who made the first aggressive move or threatened to do so. I don't believe a bad guy gives up his right to self defense- I just hope he loses.)
Let arbitration or shunning sort it all out as well as possible after the fact. Nothing is perfect, but that's as close as you are likely to get.
"Stand your ground" doesn't mean chasing a fleeing bad guy down the street and shooting him in the back. But in some cases... like if he is running off with some of your property, or you have reason to (credibly) believe he is running off for now, but knows where to find you or your loved-ones and plans to "finish this" later. And I believe only the defender can accurately assess that threat. But that has nothing to do with "standing your ground", while still being self defense.
I can't see any sense at all in "requiring" people to flee from a threat. That only rewards the thugs, and demands that people act like cowards. It's not a sustainable strategy for a civilization. Or an individual.
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*Now, "acting in an aggressive and impulsive manner" stops short, in most cases, of initiating force. I get that. However, if that is how you are in the habit of acting, you run a high risk of being misinterpreted and having a situation escalate out of your control at some point in your life. It might be OK to act that way in some situations, or around certain individuals, but I don't see it as a good survival strategy in the long term. But think for yourself and do what you want.
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And please don't forget.
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