Fear and aggression

Fearful people (and animals) are unpredictable and dangerous. They are prone to aggression. That's part of what makes statism so dangerous.

You can pretend there's no problem, but that doesn't change it.

You can try to protect the feelings of the fearful by avoiding the issue. Their dangerous fear is still there. Quiet, behind the curtains, influencing their every move.

You can try to calm their fears, but fearful people aren't likely to be rational enough to listen or watch. Even when the truth is a lot less frightening than what they imagine. Everything they experience is filtered through the lens of fear. They see and hear only what they want to see and hear.

They'll often want you to lie to protect their feelings and make them less afraid. They'll still sense you're lying, so don't bother.

You can try to show them how to handle what they fear- or just be an example. Teach them how to handle situations that they've been afraid of, if they are open to learning. This works on a few.

If you give in to your fear of what dangerous people might do, you're in danger of becoming afraid enough that you advocate for the same sort of things they are advocating for, to "protect" you from them. You've seen it happen in politics.

It's a twisted cycle. Don't participate.

Be dangerous only in that you will defend yourself when they force you to do so. Not by using the aggressive methods of statism and calling it "defense".

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