When someone is utterly consumed with bigotry, it's nearly impossible to have a reasonable discussion with them. Especially where the object of their bigotry is concerned.
And almost no one is more bigoted than anti-liberty bigots- particularly anti-gun/anti-self defense bigots.
About all you can do is point out their bigotry for others to see, then move along.
They will lie and fling hate at you. It's their only weapon.
They are sad little people. Damaged people. And they don't know it.
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