Yes, trying to establish a "government" is evil. There's just no excuse for it- at least not an ethical one which holds up under examination.
But, what if you "really, really WANT a government"?
Does anyone have the right to form a government? Only as applies to their own life- not to others. "Govern yourself" is another way of saying self control. If your governing is imposed on others, you have become an aggressor and a thief. You have become the bad guy. And since you can't establish a "State" of one, without violating someone else, there is no possible ethical way of establishing a State.
No one has a right to establish a government or a State over others. The "right to rule" can't exist.
Keep your own life in order, and defend it as necessary. If you are able and willing, offer to help others with their defense. But, don't be part of the problem. Don't govern or ask anyone to do so on your behalf.
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